I wanna ask you who is the most important person (s) in your life?
Perhaps, most of your answers are "Family" and most especially "God".
I too have the same answer as yours. I believe that people come and go into our lives for a reason. Many years have passed since the day I lost my mother. It was a very long time ago. I was still not a grown up girl. Imagine, I was only 8 years old when it happened. It was very hard and painful for me to accept and forget all the pains that I felt because I am the youngest and is really close to her. I am always with her wherever she goes. She taught me so much about everything for me to be a good person. She is like the best person that I've ever had. Comforting, teaching, scolding, and of course loving is the things that my mother does for me. I admit that losing someone so close and special to you is really hard to accept. After that, our family just lost one member. As years gone by, I always remind myself that I will really do my very best to be a good person as ever and will really do well in my studies. I am thinking of doing all of these for my mother. I want to make her proud that even at an early age I was orphaned by my mother I can still be a good, successful and educated person even if without her presence and guidance. And that people around me can say that "Oh, they are really well mannered and educated sisters even if their mother is not there and her father is not always with them". Me and my sisters have gone through a many hardships in life, but despite of that we still conquer all the trials we have encountered. We promised to our selves and to our parents that we will really make them a proud parents. I know our mother have always been so proud to us. I know she really is. She would even be more proud if we can achieve our goals and finish studies.
In that few years, I haven't felt something creepy at all. Even seeing my mother in my dreams. I would rather don't want to experience that kind of thing. I always pray to the Lord that I don't want to experience it. But many have said that people whom you have lost will still communicate with you. For now, I can't still say that dead still communicate to us.
Monday, July 18, 2011
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
#3 I stop saying "Thank You" to Her,Him and Them
Her, Him, and them.... aren't you curious why is that the Title of this blog?
There are hidden meaning behind that three pronouns.
Just a days ago, our class have tackled about the short article of L.A. Wilson entitled "No One Stops to say Thank You anymore". It was a very inspiring article that is really suited for students like me. It has great impact and message to the reader. You can realize how wealthy people act and what was their conduct or manners. In this story it talks about how manners are slowly fading away from a person. If you haven't read it, click here.
In the middle of our discussion about the story, we were asked if we still Kiss or Hug our parents... I raised my hand in the matter of "hug". Yes I still do. Since my mother was taken so early, I only have now my Father. I admit it was so hard to accept the fact that I don't have the mother who could have been their for me, can cheer me on, talk about anything under the sun, and most especially a mother who always guide you to the right path. Even if it was 8 years ago since she died, I am still longing for her hugs, kisses and guidance. I missed her so much.
Now that I only have my father and my two sisters, I always acknowledge them with hugs. I barely kissed them. For me its so "eww", I'd rather hug them than kiss them. By doing that I can show my appreciation and love towards them.
I have watched the Chinese(if I'm not mistaken) Commercial, and it was really a very touching commercial. It talks about how important is the family. Grandparents were talking about their children on how well is their children today. Most of their children are professional and has their own business. While the other one answered that her son is still going to fetch her and bring her anywhere his son go. That struck the other grandparents because their sons/daughters were busy with their own families and doesn't have time to be with them.
Have you ever wonder how the sons/daughters treat their family in this century?
I myself wondered how too. Parents are like the most important persons in our life. They were the reason why we became successful person. We grow up so well because of them. Without their guidance and love we wouldn't reach who we are today. Most of the people today usually left their parents after they became successful and have their own family. They tend to forgot about how their parents doing after all. Only few people still acknowledged their parents and still be by the side of their parents. I don't know why people tend to do that always. If they love their parents they should not leave and take for granted the value of their family even if they already have their own family. They would find time to have a bonding with their parents no matter how busy they are.
If 10 years from now, I'll be 26 by then. Already married perhaps and not living with my parents and start anew with my family. I haven't thought about marriage at this time. Its just that I am quite afraid to give birth. Haha. That was quite funny, huh? Honestly, yes I am afraid. I want to get married and walk in to the aisle, wearing a beautiful gown and accompanied with my parents. Isn't that the most beautiful and memorable day of everyone, right? Who wouldn't be so much happy when you are getting married to the person whom you really love. So much for that. 10 years from now I may not be living with my parents but I will not forget everything they does for me. I will still visit them once in awhile as much as I could. I would really set a date for us to have a great quality time together. Some things may changed but my love and purity for my parents would never change and would never ever be fade away.
Him is my father, Her is my mother and them is my siblings...
I absolutely don't know how can I say thank you to my parents. I really don't know how to. They did so many good things for me and let me became a very good person today. I want to pay back all the hardships they had encountered to give us a good quality education and living status. We are not rich just like others, but we can eat three times a day and I believe that is one of the important matter to each family and also being together no matter what happens. I do believe that one thing that I can make my parents feel so proud and happy is that to give them the Diploma and be on the stage getting your award. I know I can reach that goal and I will really pursue that dream of mine. To my siblings, I want them to be happy. In my 16 years of living in this world they have been a good siblings to me, helped me a lot even though sometimes we couldn't understand each others feelings. A simple word thank you may strike their heart. So I want to say the word "Thank You" to them for everything they does for me and for the love.
There are hidden meaning behind that three pronouns.
Just a days ago, our class have tackled about the short article of L.A. Wilson entitled "No One Stops to say Thank You anymore". It was a very inspiring article that is really suited for students like me. It has great impact and message to the reader. You can realize how wealthy people act and what was their conduct or manners. In this story it talks about how manners are slowly fading away from a person. If you haven't read it, click here.
In the middle of our discussion about the story, we were asked if we still Kiss or Hug our parents... I raised my hand in the matter of "hug". Yes I still do. Since my mother was taken so early, I only have now my Father. I admit it was so hard to accept the fact that I don't have the mother who could have been their for me, can cheer me on, talk about anything under the sun, and most especially a mother who always guide you to the right path. Even if it was 8 years ago since she died, I am still longing for her hugs, kisses and guidance. I missed her so much.
Now that I only have my father and my two sisters, I always acknowledge them with hugs. I barely kissed them. For me its so "eww", I'd rather hug them than kiss them. By doing that I can show my appreciation and love towards them.
I have watched the Chinese(if I'm not mistaken) Commercial, and it was really a very touching commercial. It talks about how important is the family. Grandparents were talking about their children on how well is their children today. Most of their children are professional and has their own business. While the other one answered that her son is still going to fetch her and bring her anywhere his son go. That struck the other grandparents because their sons/daughters were busy with their own families and doesn't have time to be with them.
Have you ever wonder how the sons/daughters treat their family in this century?
I myself wondered how too. Parents are like the most important persons in our life. They were the reason why we became successful person. We grow up so well because of them. Without their guidance and love we wouldn't reach who we are today. Most of the people today usually left their parents after they became successful and have their own family. They tend to forgot about how their parents doing after all. Only few people still acknowledged their parents and still be by the side of their parents. I don't know why people tend to do that always. If they love their parents they should not leave and take for granted the value of their family even if they already have their own family. They would find time to have a bonding with their parents no matter how busy they are.
If 10 years from now, I'll be 26 by then. Already married perhaps and not living with my parents and start anew with my family. I haven't thought about marriage at this time. Its just that I am quite afraid to give birth. Haha. That was quite funny, huh? Honestly, yes I am afraid. I want to get married and walk in to the aisle, wearing a beautiful gown and accompanied with my parents. Isn't that the most beautiful and memorable day of everyone, right? Who wouldn't be so much happy when you are getting married to the person whom you really love. So much for that. 10 years from now I may not be living with my parents but I will not forget everything they does for me. I will still visit them once in awhile as much as I could. I would really set a date for us to have a great quality time together. Some things may changed but my love and purity for my parents would never change and would never ever be fade away.
Him is my father, Her is my mother and them is my siblings...
I absolutely don't know how can I say thank you to my parents. I really don't know how to. They did so many good things for me and let me became a very good person today. I want to pay back all the hardships they had encountered to give us a good quality education and living status. We are not rich just like others, but we can eat three times a day and I believe that is one of the important matter to each family and also being together no matter what happens. I do believe that one thing that I can make my parents feel so proud and happy is that to give them the Diploma and be on the stage getting your award. I know I can reach that goal and I will really pursue that dream of mine. To my siblings, I want them to be happy. In my 16 years of living in this world they have been a good siblings to me, helped me a lot even though sometimes we couldn't understand each others feelings. A simple word thank you may strike their heart. So I want to say the word "Thank You" to them for everything they does for me and for the love.
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